tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8481860535107805261.post681029550686693877..comments2011-05-14T07:46:10.003-07:00Comments on AliceKeema: So angry all the timealicekeemahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08785977196045068049noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8481860535107805261.post-63835544521070085242010-04-24T20:09:07.142-07:002010-04-24T20:09:07.142-07:00oh yeah and check out Ray LaMontagne... he should ...oh yeah and check out Ray LaMontagne... he should make the days go by a bit smoother.~https://www.blogger.com/profile/18326597164070024621noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8481860535107805261.post-9194360357758857302010-04-24T20:08:00.732-07:002010-04-24T20:08:00.732-07:00COMMUNICATION! Sorry didn't mean to yell. :) I...COMMUNICATION! Sorry didn't mean to yell. :) I do recommend with urgency that you stop and remember the important things. How do you want to live your life? Do you want to be angry? No matter how you try, and I know you do, you cannot change anyone else. Perhaps you are looking at this from a particularly challenging angle. Perhaps a different perspective will be of use. Perhaps you should work on controlling what you can and accepting the limitations of others as thing that YOU can learn to work around. You want a challenge, something to keep you occupied right? <br /><br />So I say find a way to entertain yourself and get your husband to listen to you.<br /><br />#1 place reminders in unique places to jog his memory (even simple things like "I love you," or "did you put the seat down?"<br /><br />#2 Instead of being angry that he didn't listen, try thinking of it as you didn't communicate effectively. Consider it a challenge not a frustration. <br /><br />Count your accomplishments in his brain functions. This way you have something to think about and something to focus on. You also get a nice little challenge to celebrate instead of a headache and a bad attitude. (It's like teaching Algebra to teenagers.)~https://www.blogger.com/profile/18326597164070024621noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8481860535107805261.post-34973813069988565332010-04-24T20:06:11.794-07:002010-04-24T20:06:11.794-07:00This comment has been removed by the author.~https://www.blogger.com/profile/18326597164070024621noreply@blogger.com